You saw him from across a crowded room. Your eyes met. And you fell in love! But he doesn’t even know you exist... at least not in the way you want him to. You have been sitting awake all night trying to figure out how to make him want you. If only he would notice you! You’ve spent hours wondering how to get his attention. You’ve tried to talk to him, but can’t seem to find the right words to say.


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Are you afraid that there is no way to make him want you? Have no fear! The following article will give you some useful tips on how to get his attention. You don’t have to go to extremes, just take our advice on how to make him want you and he will be falling at your feet!

Keep Up Your Appearance

Surely, he won't come up to you and say 'Show me love,' but you can try, right? The best way to show that you have feelings towards someone is to improve the way you look. Looks aren’t everything, but in reality, they are important. You want to make yourself look attractive to your future beau so it’s crucial to maintain your appearance. Wear makeup that enhances your features. You don’t want to walk around looking like a clown. Find the colors that work best for your features and skin tone. Keep it natural. A little lip gloss can go a long way when it comes to catching his eyes.

Also make sure your hair always looks its best as well. If the messy, casual look works best for you, then flaunt it. And don’t be afraid to experiment with fun and interesting new hairstyles.

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Also wear clothes that are flattering for your figure. And it’s okay to look a little sexy and flaunt your figure, but you don’t want to give too much away too soon. Always leave a room for mystery. And don’t overdress either. If you are meeting him for a walk in the park you don’t want to show up in a prom gown. A cute sundress with comfortable heels, or a sexy halter top, skinny jeans and cute loafers are enough to get his attention. Save that sexy little black dress for a romantic dinner.

And don’t forget the perfume. Guys love a woman who smells nice. And it shouldn’t have to be said, but it’s critical that you also keep up your personal hygiene. Make sure your smile is white and your breath is fresh.

Keep these tips on how to make him want you in mind when you are getting ready to see him. You don’t have to look like a cover model, but you should take pride in your appearance and embrace your inner and outer beauty so you can catch his eye!


Show Him You’re Irresistible

Confidence is the key. Men love a woman who is self-assured. Show him that you are proud of who you are. And be sincere, don’t put on airs. Also don’t hide your brains. Contrary to popular belief, men do not want a woman who is an airhead. They want to be with a woman who can hold an intelligent conversation. Don’t act condensing and try to outsmart him, but don’t dumb it down either. Let your intelligence shine through.

Always maintain a positive attitude. Nobody likes a pessimist. Be supportive and encouraging. Pay attention when he speaks and show genuine interest. Ask questions and voice your opinion. Keep an open mind. Most importantly, do not monopolize the conversation. Don’t prattle on forever about random gossip, let him speak and the conversation will flow naturally.

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Show an interest in his hobbies. Don’t always make it about what you want to do. Be open to trying new things. It also can’t hurt to read up on his hobbies a bit so you can impress him with your knowledge and have an intelligent conversation. And don’t be too clingy, give him some space. If he needs a time to himself, or wants to go out with the guys, don’t stand in his way. Show him you have a life of your own as well. Men like a woman who is strong and independent. You don’t want to appear needy or clingy.

But most importantly, be yourself. Never pretend to be something you’re not. If you want this guy to stick around, you can’t put on a charade, because eventually he will see right through it. Let him see you for the amazing woman you are. If he doesn’t appreciate that, then he isn’t someone you want to stick around.

Don’t Be Afraid to Flirt

Flirting may seem cliché, but it really does work. And it’s easier than you think. Simply make eye contact and hold his gaze for a few seconds. Touch his arm gently. Pay him compliments. Men love to be complimented so don’t hold back!

Write him a cute little note and leave it on his desk (or in his locker... or lunch... be creative) Bake him some goodies... cookies, cupcakes, brownies, homemade chocolates. Men love sweets just as much as we do and if you’re a good cook that's just extra bonus points for you. Buy him little token gifts to show him how much you like him.

Be flirty, but don’t throw yourself at him either. Learn to read his body language. You will be able to tell if he is interested. Literally throwing yourself at him is not how to make him want you. Keep it light and subtle. If you see that he is interested, then you can take it up a notch. Be assertive, not aggressive!

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If you follow these simple tips on how to make him want you, you can win surely win his heart. Don’t be afraid to tell him how you feel either! You don’t want to walk up to him and blurt out “I love you!”, but if you sense that the attraction is mutual, it’s perfectly fine to tell him how you feel. Men don’t always pick up on subtle hints like we do and often like it when the woman makes the first move. Again, do not throw yourself at him or you’ll scare him away! Go with your gut and you will go far in making him notice you!

So what are you waiting for girl? Go out there and get him!


FAQ: How To Make Him Want You

How do you know if you’re on his mind?

  • Throughout the day, he sends you sweet little inside jokes.
  • On his way home, he usually surprises you (in a good way).
  • He keeps in touch with you after you’ve had a talk.
  • Everything makes him think of you, and it’s sometimes a stretch.

Why can’t I stop thinking about a guy?

If you can’t stop thinking or being obsessed about someone, it may be a sign that you’re developing a fixation on them. This isn’t a good situation. It’s crucial to let them go if your partner has begun seeing someone else or is thinking about someone else who isn’t you

What texts do guys like to receive?

  1. Example 1: “The ball is in your court. It was a wonderful time last night…”
  2. Example 2: “I need your advice”. Men enjoy sharing their knowledge, to the point where mansplaining is a problem that all women face regularly.
  3. Example 3:“I’m having difficulties concentrating at work because I’m thinking about last night.”
  4. Example 4:“I had a dream last night that you asked me out. Where would you like to go?.”