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The Punishment-Reward System

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Introduce the punishment-reward system into your sex, and it will instantly become kinkier. But remember one important thing: this system is supposed to be fun. Your sex will become more exciting. Just don’t try to over-control your partner.

Here are some ideas of rewards: oral sex, hand job, massaging his balls or your clitoris. As for the punishments, it could be spanking, face slapping, grabbing the balls, tickling, or pinching.

Crazy Kinky Oral Sex

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Oral sex does not seem like something kinky. But it can be. For example, when your partner is eating you, use your hands to guide him. Place your hands on his head and then pull his hair a bit in the necessary direction. Or, when he does something especially satisfying, begin massaging his scalp. It’s a kind of cunnilingus feedback.

Think About The Finish Before You Start

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Think About The Finish Before You Start

You can always give your partner a straightforward and routine job. But finish that right, and it will turn into something super hot.

For example, let him finish into the hand, then just lick it off or put into the mouth. Or ask him to cum in your mouth, then swallow it, looking into his eyes. It could also be your breasts, face, ass, neck – anything he is obsessed about.

Sex In The Water

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Sex in the water is something that we all saw in the movies. But if you really wish to try it, use waterproof lubricant. It’s necessary because your natural lubricant will be washed away in the water. And if you don’t use it, the experience may be less pleasant due to the vaginal dryness.
Also, be careful not to slip or fall. It’s better to stick to simple positions when in the water.

Sexy Spanking

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If you and your partner find spanking arousing and hot, go for it! There are many ways how to incorporate spanking into your sex life. For example, try spanking while having sex. When he’s on top in a way that you could reach his butt, spank him with your palm being open.

And if you enjoy spanking a lot, take it to the next level by using tools like whips, a paddle, slappers, canes, floggers, or a crop.

But of course, don’t forget that you might leave marks. So, control your enthusiasm and don’t hit too hard.

Butt Stuff

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Butt Stuff

For some people, anal is a kind of kinky sex, while for others it’s something routine. If you are one of the former, trying anal sex might spice things up a lot for you. Just keep in mind several things.

This experience shouldn’t be painful. To ensure it, use much water based lube. Relax the muscles, breathe.

Begin small. To prepare your butt for sex, don’t go too much at once. Use special small sex toys, fingers, or tongue. Or buy butt plugs of different sizes to train the butt muscles.