If you want a softer, romantic look, avoid harsh shadow and eyeliner. Use a soft color and focus on your eyelashes and lips. A slight shimmer is super-stunning as are pastel shades. Use very light liner and make sure to blend it in just enough to define your eyes. Curl your lashes and use a primer followed by lengthening mascara on both bottom and top lashes. Be sure not to overdo it though, or you’ll lose the romantic effect.