Laziness is something that is being blended in the genes of males even though it is my point of view. Our society has always seen that the male child is pampered more than the daughters and eventually it makes them lazy. So, actually this is not the fault of your lazy husband but it is completely due to the up-bringing of the sons. The parents might feel bit sad but this is a bitter truth and if you are unfortunately blessed with such an idle husband, most probably you are required to do a toughest job to handle them properly.
However, here are some useful tips on how to handle a lazy husband:
Make him feel happy
Rather than wearing your bitch face all the time, be appreciative and shower him with gestures and phrases when he does something to help you a bit. Appreciating wives have been seen to deal a better life than that of others. While some feel happy with small appreciation other requires it more. You must know in which your husband feels happy, so try appreciating him as much as you can when he does even something small for you.
Don't refuse any help
Even the most beautiful women should be able to show some weakness once in a while. Though your husband is lazy, but whenever he offers you any kind of help never refuse it. Accept the help even though it just takes few seconds or else you were planning to do it right then. Try to make him involve in this kind of small jobs but never forget to thank him at the same time. Also appreciate his help as it will make him feel happy and encourage him to do more for you.
Ask him to assist
Never act like a foreman by telling your husband what to do and what not all the time. Men like to do things on their own but if they are made feel that they are still living with mom and dad, it makes the situation worse. So, act like a loving wife, politely ask him to assist you in some jobs and tell him what all things you can’t do that should be done by him. Again appreciate his help and ask your Lazy husband to do the household work if he has any free time.
Don't redo the things
My husband is lazy!! This is the issue of many women and it is really disheartening to hear that the laziness is too big and powerful. But do not worry as you can still make him work by going through these useful tips. Being content is really needed to deal with your Lazy husband. Never redo the things that your husband just done. For example, he has washed the dishes and you do not agree or did not like the way he did the dish washing job. Now it would be really meaningless to wash the dishes again as you were not happy with the way things were done. Discontent with your husband is not going to help you in this case.
Never lose your patience as it will not make your husband some less lazy. In case you are really tired of your husband just be silent and walk away. This silence can do a great job sometimes if they realize that they have gone far and it’s time to start things to make the situation better. But backfiring on him and shouting out of lack of patience is not the way to handle your husband anyway.
Forget about deadlines
Do not fix a deadline to get something done from your husband. Men naturally like freedom so let him do the job his own way. Never discourage and irritate him by making a time frame for a particular job rather let him do it in his free time. It is always advised to play the role of a mentor but not of a teacher as your lazy husband will definitely love to see you as the mentor but not as the teacher.
Catch a good mood
Never try to blurt out that you want him to do. Rather catch him when he is in good mood. Everyone has their moments and we all love doing things more happily when we are in good mood. This is the thing with men as well. So, never force him to do something for you rather request him or else ask him if he has any free time to do that job for you.
Do not raise your voice and yell at him to get the things done by him. It will block your husband’s mind and he will not only forget actually what is being said to him but also he will walk out of the room without glancing backward for a single time. So, maintain the regular tone and be loving when you ask him to do some jobs for your home.
Don't expect tidiness
This is another important tip that requires you to understand the difference between you and your lazy husband. You might be bit tidy but if you expect your husband to be the same, this is the biggest mistake. As you start understanding such small things, everything will become much easier and you will be able to handle your idle husband more easily.
Just ask him!
Do not hesitate to ask your husband in case you need any help from him. Feel free to talk to him and ask him to get things done. Lazy husband will always try to remain lazy unless you ask him to get something done.
So, 10 useful tips are listed here following which you can definitely overcome your husband’s laziness to a great extent. Also you will find out many more ideas to handle your idle husband more accurately with each day passing.
FAQ: Lazy Husband
Is laziness grounds for divorce?
When one person is responsible for everything, it can lead to a lot of resentment and even anger, which can lead to divorce. One spouse’s laziness does not make for a fair marriage.
What is a toxic husband?
You’re rarely allowed to convey your feelings or viewpoints in a toxic relationship. And, if you’re lucky enough to be given a microphone, your husband’s voice will try to drown out yours. Any reasonable attempt to express yourself may be dismissed or ridiculed by a toxic partner.
What is an unhealthy marriage?
Control concerns are generally visible in unhappy marriages. Controlling one’s finances is a simple task. One spouse begins to make decisions over how money is spent and how much the other spouse is allowed to spend. Unhealthy control can also extend to friendships and extracurricular activities.